Arrogant women and spineless men

Too many women are seduced by the common image in the media today of the sexy, high-powered, important, ball-busting career woman. She’s hot, she’s smart, she doesn’t take any crap, and she knows she’s got it all. She doesn’t need a man. Think Samantha or Miranda from Sex and the City. About half of the heroines in chick flicks fit this mold (the other half are desperate for a man and do nothing but sit around waiting for Mr. Right to magically appear). They always end up with some man who surprises them and is “nothing that they want”, but inevitably, the man who starts off in the beginning unwilling to be Ms. Powerful’s doormat always ends up, in the end, becoming just that. After seeing that for so long, women start to emulate those women. They expect their relationships to work that way. They expect to be able to get away with being a ball-busting bitch and have their man just happily take it.

There’s just a small problem.

No man will ever be happy in that kind of relationship, and neither will any woman.

via www.cassyfiano.com

No. I agree with Cassy - this sort of relationship is a recipe for disaster! It's insulting to both parties, and I'm truly astonished at how many women have turned into disgusting and unattractive harpies because they've bought into this satanic (yes, I meant satanic!) worldview.

One of the things the Bible says about this is in 1 Peter 3:3-4:

Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.

Women are not supposed to be strident, vicious, selfish, arrogant and condescending witches (true, men aren't supposed to be testosterone-addicted, overbearing boors either, but we're dealing with women at the moment)! How much better to be calm and gracious, firmly stating your views and wishes with courtesy and respect to whomever you're addressing? Isn't that how women want to be treated, with courtesy and respect? Well, then, if you're not willing to give it, then don't expect to get it!

If Megan Fox and "womyn" like her want to behave like screeching harridans, I certainly can't stop them. But, like I tell my daughter, "You can choose your actions, but you cannot choose the consequences."

Unless Ms. Fox has a drastic change of attitude, I suspect her consequences might include a long string of shattered relationships, cauterized emotions, and a very lonely old age.